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    <title>I vow to get over this cold</title>
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    <published>2012-02-02T16:36:01Z</published>
    <updated>2012-02-02T17:24:49Z</updated>
    
    <summary> Well hello there! I hope you&apos;re having a good day. About a month ago, it popped into my head that we&apos;d had a pretty healthy school year so far. And then I cringed. Did I jinx it?! Surely you...</summary>
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<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6807271891/" title="eggs this morning by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7019/6807271891_78f775e7bb.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="eggs this morning"></a></p>

<p><br />
Well hello there! I hope you're having a good day.</p>

<p>About a month ago, it popped into my head that we'd had a pretty healthy school year so far. And then I cringed. Did I jinx it?! Surely you know where this is headed. I promptly got the stomach flu, and then we all got a cold which we passed on to Maw Maw (aka Brian's mom.) And then Brian got the stomach flu. Then I got another cold? I don't know. I felt better for several days and then backslid.</p>

<p>But now, I'm vowing to get over it. I read somewhere you should eat extra protein when trying to fight an infection. I don't really think I have an infection, but it was a nice excuse this morning for a couple of eggs instead of my usual granola or steel cut oatmeal. And I'm going to have a green smoothy at lunch. </p>

<p>- - - - - - -</p>

<p>I'm in a creative slump. Big time. <a href="http://weblog.buttonsmagee.com/2012/02/middle-of-the-week.html">I'm not the only one</a>.</p>

<p>- - - - - - -</p>

<p>See that knitting back there? I've been working on it for years. Seriously. I knit for several days and then take months off. I'm going to unravel it, start over on something quick and easy. A really plain scarf perhaps on great big needles? Maybe if there's some faster gratification, I'll stick with it longer and really learn. BUT I can't remember how to cast on. I'm looking for advice. I did a quick youtube search and a bajillion knitting videos came up. Any recommendations? Or a book? Would I be better off with a book?</p>

<p>- - - - - - -</p>

<p>I'm getting a haircut tomorrow. And I'm going shorter. I think. Here's my Pinterest collection of <a href="http://pinterest.com/mayfly/think-about-it/">cute cuts</a> that have inspired me! Whatcha think?</p>

<p>(What's up with Pinterest? Crazy slow this morning.)</p>

<p>- - - - - - - </p>

<p>The weather has been almost spring-like here nearly all winter. I'm not complaining, but it has been odd. I have a big family photoshoot this weekend, and wouldn't you know it. Cold. And possibly rainy. Phooey.</p>

<p>- - - - - - -</p>

<p>It's almost Valentine's Day! You should buy <a href="http://shop.bluesparrowpress.com/product/friend-letterpress-print">this print</a> for a friend. Or <a href="http://scarf-shop.com/shop.html">this scarf</a>. Or BOTH!</p>

<p>- - - - - - -</p>

<p>I'm still over at Flickr, with my <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/sets/72157628673904537/with/6807130719/">366 (it's like blogging lite) project</a>. Visit me there.</p>

<p>Take good care!</p>

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<entry>
    <title>- - 366 - -</title>
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    <published>2012-01-17T05:11:54Z</published>
    <updated>2012-01-17T05:19:13Z</updated>
    
    <summary> I&apos;m taking part in a 366 project this year: a photo a day all year long. It feels a little like old times. I&apos;m trying to make a few notes about the day or photo on each as well....</summary>
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        <name>Alicia</name>
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<p>I'm taking part in a 366 project this year: a photo a day all year long. It feels a little like old times. I'm trying to make a few notes about the day or photo on each as well. If you'd like to see <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/sets/72157628673904537/">them</a>, visit me over at <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/">Flickr</a>.</p>

<p>We're all well. I hope your new year has started smoothly. </p>

<p>xo.</p>]]>
        
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<entry>
    <title>wrapping up christmas</title>
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    <published>2011-12-30T16:02:28Z</published>
    <updated>2011-12-30T20:13:41Z</updated>
    
    <summary> So how did your holidays go? I hope they were relaxing. Ours was extraordinarily stress free. I don&apos;t know what it was- there were last minute gifts to buy and make, mad dashes to the grocery, B had a...</summary>
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        <name>Alicia</name>
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<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6600980773/" title="1300+ legos by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7033/6600980773_755f2f64a3.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="1300+ legos"></a></p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6600981311/" title="fondue by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7146/6600981311_c914b158fe.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="fondue"></a></p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6600979933/" title="twinkle by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7171/6600979933_4ffa7bec8b.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="twinkle"></a></p>

<p><br />
So how did your holidays go? I hope they were relaxing. Ours was extraordinarily stress free. I don't know what it was- there were last minute gifts to buy and make, mad dashes to the grocery, B had a decent-ish cold- but somehow we stayed calm and collected and found ourselves dancing around to Frosty the Snowman, smiling an awful lot, feeling grateful.</p>

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* * * * * * * * *</p>

<p>If only for the sake of having something to visit about, here's a run down of the few  gifts I made:</p>

<p>I think I've talked about this before. My kids ask Santa for one gift, we give them one toy, and I make them something. Between their cousins and grandparents they get plenty. Too much, really. So our three gift limit keeps things simpler for us. </p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6569304649/" title="warm jammies by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7147/6569304649_42271df798.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="warm jammies"></a></p>

<p>For his mommy-made gift J asked again this year for warm jammies. I sewed up a quick pair of fleecey p.j. pants and bought a thermal shirt to go with it.</p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6569304939/" title="matching dresses by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7170/6569304939_77b53a3025.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="matching dresses"></a></p>

<p>N asked Santa for an American Girl doll, so her mommy-made gift was a set of matching dresses. I used <a href="http://sewing.patternreview.com/Patterns/49867">this pattern</a> for her dress and I made the blouse from <a href="http://mccallpattern.mccall.com/m2506-products-710.php?page_id=909">this pattern</a> for the doll dress, shortened the bodice and added a skirt.</p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6416178983/" title="a.g. doll outfit by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6238/6416178983_452244715c.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="a.g. doll outfit"></a></p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6416178613/" title="a.g. doll outfit by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7004/6416178613_dbbeba2959.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="a.g. doll outfit"></a></p>

<p>My nieces, who are also AG doll crazy, each got a little doll blouse (same pattern) and a little doll skirt (no pattern) and a pair of little doll shoes.</p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6527862073/" title="toothbrush roll by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7016/6527862073_57e0c9a5f7.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="toothbrush roll"></a></p>

<p>My good friend, Andrea, <a href="http://pinterest.com/pin/30188259971817557/">pinned these little toothpaste travel rolls</a>, so I made her a couple.</p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6569725781/" title="sweet &amp; spicy almonds by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7035/6569725781_fc04c3e203.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="sweet &amp; spicy almonds"></a></p>

<p>And our sweet neighbor, who dotes on our kids and left a gift on our porch, got a last-minute batch of <a href="http://smittenkitchen.com/2008/12/sugar-and-spice-candied-nuts/">these nuts</a>. (I used almonds.) They were SO good. In fact, I think I'll make some more today!</p>

<p>Oh, and worth mentioning. We ate <a href="http://nectarandlight.typepad.com/nectar/2011/12/one-of-the-reasons-i-started-this-blog-was-to-document-in-words-and-photographs-our-jounrey-to-eating-responsibly-we-started.html">this savory bread pudding</a> on Christmas morning. Oh my lord- it is rich and delicious. Instant tradition.</p>

<p>* * * * * * * * *</p>

<p><br />
So that's it for Christmas. As soon as we enjoy two dinner parties this weekend, it's time for a fresh new year, a fresh start. Time to clean up and purge and get on with things, whatever this new year holds in store for us.</p>

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    <title>little pieces of this evening</title>
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    <published>2011-12-21T03:43:14Z</published>
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    <summary> Although it may appear otherwise, there was no liquor in her kiddie-cocktail, I swear....</summary>
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<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6547050631/" title="cocktail hour by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7159/6547050631_7e7b74bcbe.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="cocktail hour"></a></p>

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<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6547050891/" title="goofball by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7002/6547050891_c07c762fa4.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="goofball"></a></p>

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<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6547083855/" title="red by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7142/6547083855_0a6d021357.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="red"></a></p>

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<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6547083623/" title="light by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7008/6547083623_69ce5e19ab.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="light"></a></p>

<p><br />
Although it may appear otherwise, there was no liquor in her kiddie-cocktail, I swear.</p>

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<entry>
    <title>eating breakfast</title>
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    <published>2011-12-17T15:45:56Z</published>
    <updated>2011-12-17T16:06:31Z</updated>
    
    <summary> My sweetie took a vacation day yesterday. After we wrangled the kids off to school, I made him a bowl of steel cut oats with apples and cinnamon. But this morning I ate pie for breakfast. It was Bumbleberry...</summary>
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<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6526031731/" title="it was pie by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7164/6526031731_1ec15f81f2.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="it was pie"></a></p>

<p>My sweetie took a vacation day yesterday. After we wrangled the kids off to school, I made him a bowl of steel cut oats with apples and cinnamon. </p>

<p>But this morning I ate pie for breakfast. It was Bumbleberry from <a href="http://www.uppercrustpiebakery.com/index.html">here</a>- a little pie shop in downtown Overland Park. Possible the best piece of pie I've ever eaten. (Sorry, Dad!) Go there today. </p>

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<entry>
    <title>ready or not...</title>
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    <published>2011-12-03T04:34:18Z</published>
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    <summary> ... here it comes. Are you ready? I feel ready. The kids in our extended family are growing up, and really, they just want money or a gift card to help them with that next big thing they&apos;re saving...</summary>
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<p>... here it comes.</p>

<p>Are you ready? I feel ready.</p>

<p>The kids in our extended family are growing up, and really, they just want money or a gift card to help them with that next big thing they're saving for. So there's just not much shopping to do. (Hallelujah.)</p>

<p>I've already started on some handmade gifts. I'll <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/tags/handmadeholidaygifts2011/">flickr them</a> if you're at all interested. <br />
Are you? <br />
Is anyone even still reading here? <br />
Hello? <br />
I'll pretend that you're still there.</p>

<p>(Crickets.)</p>

<p>Anyway... where was I? Shopping's nearly done. Hot cocoa is at the ready. Our little <a href="http://www.themayfly.com/weblog/2007/12/worlds_most_boring_advent_cale.html">advent socks</a> are up, although #24 has mysteriously vanished. Some simple holiday activities are underway. We're getting our tree tomorrow too. </p>

<p>Tonight was cozy. It's rainy, and we discovered <a href="http://www.wordswithfriends.com/">Words with Friends</a>, and we <em>all</em> (my mom at her house, my sister and niece at theirs, Brian, J, and I- with N as my helper- here at home) played each other on our iPods and phones. This could be a problem. A big problem.</p>

<p>I'm really going to try to be here a little more this month. I don't know why- or what I'll write about even. But I miss it. Will you stop in and say 'hello' once in awhile?</p>

<p>(Crickets.)</p>

<p>Yawn. Okay then. Nighty night.</p>

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<entry>
    <title>my co-worker</title>
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    <published>2011-11-17T03:27:16Z</published>
    <updated>2011-11-17T03:58:19Z</updated>
    
    <summary> I know photos of pets are really cutest to the owners of said pets, but I can&apos;t help it. He&apos;s so handsome. This little guy is my good friend and co-worker. We go for a walk together most mornings-...</summary>
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<p><br />
I know photos of pets are really cutest to the owners of said pets, but I can't help it. He's so handsome. This little guy is my good friend and co-worker. We go for a walk together most mornings- seeing me in my tennis shoes makes him really happy. No matter what I'm doing, he's at my feet. When I'm working in my studio or editing photos on the computer, he's sleeping under my desk. If I'm cooking in the kitchen, he stretches out on the rug in front of the sink. He chases the vacuum when I'm cleaning. He waits at the window if I leave. He can catch a tennis ball in the air. He feels it's his duty to keep our back yard squirrel-free. </p>

<p>Now, if only we could make him stop freaking out when he sees other dogs (dominant aggressive? protective? scared? who knows.), he'd be just about the perfect pooch...</p>

<p>I love him. Dogs are just so <em>good</em>. Do you know what I mean?</p>

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<entry>
    <title>what a beautiful day</title>
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    <published>2011-11-13T04:26:33Z</published>
    <updated>2011-11-13T04:41:22Z</updated>
    
    <summary> We relaxed this morning. Then we raked leaves. Had grilled cheese and tomato soup for lunch. Took a long hike- Some of us walked and took lots of photographs. Some of us rode mountain bikes. One of us ran...</summary>
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<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6338764405/" title="likelittlejewels by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6227/6338764405_0cc8b2f75f.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="likelittlejewels"></a></p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6338764497/" title="lookingdown by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6240/6338764497_bd731042a9.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="lookingdown"></a></p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6339516048/" title="reflections by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6032/6339516048_dfe7550bca.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="reflections"></a></p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6339515382/" title="biking by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6099/6339515382_11380c3998.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="biking"></a></p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6338764855/" title="roots by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6220/6338764855_aee555fb48.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="roots"></a></p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6339515652/" title="leaves by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6106/6339515652_2b87ca112b.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="leaves"></a></p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6339515568/" title="today was one of those really good kind of days by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6059/6339515568_e1152f7a04.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="today was one of those really good kind of days"></a></p>

<p>We relaxed this morning.<br />
Then we raked leaves.<br />
Had grilled cheese and tomato soup for lunch.<br />
Took a long hike-<br />
Some of us walked and took lots of photographs.<br />
Some of us rode mountain bikes.<br />
One of us ran ahead off his leash.<br />
They played catch in the yard.<br />
We made homemade pizza for dinner.<br />
Talked with a friend.<br />
Then played some Uno.</p>

<p>November 12 was a perfect Fall day.</p>

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<entry>
    <title>just wednesday</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.themayfly.com/weblog/2011/11/just_wednesday.html" />
    <link rel="service.edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.themayfly.com/cgi-bin/mt-atom.cgi/weblog/blog_id=1/entry_id=794" title="just wednesday" />
    <id>tag:www.themayfly.com,2011:/weblog//1.794</id>
    
    <published>2011-11-02T14:38:56Z</published>
    <updated>2011-11-02T15:57:57Z</updated>
    
    <summary> The girl-child has wholeheartedly embraced knee socks, which I love. But daddy doesn&apos;t. I think it makes him think of this. The ladies at habit have opened the flickr group again. What do your days look like lately? Did...</summary>
    <author>
        <name>Alicia</name>
        <uri>www.themayfly.com/weblog</uri>
    </author>
    
        <category term="this and that" />
    
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        <![CDATA[<div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6306196746/" title="3pounds by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6051/6306196746_3f38f9998b.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="3pounds"></a>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6306196886/" title="as big as my face by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6230/6306196886_7d423a3120_z.jpg" width="427" height="640" alt="as big as my face"></a></p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6306196542/" title="jerry by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6058/6306196542_af47438041_z.jpg" width="640" height="427" alt="jerry"></a></div></p>

<p>The girl-child has wholeheartedly embraced knee socks, which I love. But daddy doesn't. I think it makes him think of <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C-u5WLJ9Yk4">this</a>. </p>

<p>The ladies at <a href="http://www.habitblog.com/">habit</a> have opened the <a href="http://www.flickr.com/groups/habit/discuss/72157628028247314/">flickr group</a> again. What do your days look like lately?</p>

<p>Did you see <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/buttonsmagee/6299344174/">Rachel's makeup</a> for Halloween? Um, wow.</p>

<p>On repeat: <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8SZUzwEpdVA">Falling Through</a>, <a href="http://www.myspace.com/masonjennings/music/songs/darkness-between-the-fireflies-1556277">Darkness Between the Fireflies</a>, <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lp8mXk4UvXM">Naked as We Came</a>, <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lfpjy65K3SE">Blame the Vain</a>, <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ToEPFDIzhNA">Chinese Translation</a>, <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kqLssKusGzM">A Girl in the War</a>, <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bbIrdspkVIk">Winter Birds</a> (crushing on Ray big time).</p>

<p>I have so many of Tara's <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/eyeblog/6302721047/in/photostream/">photographs</a> in my flickr favorites. She just has it going on.</p>

<p>I think I'm going to make a <a href="http://www.sweetpaulmag-digital.com/sweetpaulmag/fall2011#pg84">flan</a> tonight. I've been thinking about it for days.</p>

<p>Heather's <a href="http://www.heathersmithjones.com/journal/">journal</a> moved.</p>

<p>Happy Wednesday.</p>

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<entry>
    <title>faces of breast cancer</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.themayfly.com/weblog/2011/11/faces_of_breast_cancer.html" />
    <link rel="service.edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.themayfly.com/cgi-bin/mt-atom.cgi/weblog/blog_id=1/entry_id=793" title="faces of breast cancer" />
    <id>tag:www.themayfly.com,2011:/weblog//1.793</id>
    
    <published>2011-11-01T18:00:41Z</published>
    <updated>2011-11-01T19:36:49Z</updated>
    
    <summary>Do any of you remember this? Five years ago my mom, my sister, and I were featured in the Faces of Breast Cancer calendar. Early last summer, my friends, who work at SMMC, asked me if I&apos;d be interested in...</summary>
    <author>
        <name>Alicia</name>
        <uri>www.themayfly.com/weblog</uri>
    </author>
    
        <category term="photography" />
    
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        <![CDATA[<p>Do any of you remember <a href="http://www.themayfly.com/weblog/2006/12/calendar_girls.html">this</a>? Five years ago my mom, my sister, and I were featured in the Faces of Breast Cancer calendar. Early last summer, my friends, who work at <a href="http://www.shawneemission.org/">SMMC</a>, asked me if I'd be interested in taking the photographs for the 2012 calendar. I spent the end of the summer taking photographs of all the women down at the <a href="http://www.powellgardens.org/default.asp?page=KauffmanMap">Kauffman Memorial Garden</a>.</p>

<p><br />
<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6302774015/" title="Faces by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6092/6302774015_ca9ed57b3d.jpg" width="500" height="334" alt="Faces"></a></p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6303299494/" title="fobc by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6038/6303299494_a59710e641.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="fobc"></a></p>

<p><br />
There's a display of the photos I chose of each woman at the hospital right now. </p>

<p>It was so wonderful to meet and photograph these ladies- they are beautiful, strong, and inspirational. And I am proud to be a part of the calendar again.</p>

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<entry>
    <title>wildlife we&apos;ve seen in our yard</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.themayfly.com/weblog/2011/10/wildlife_weve_seen_in_our_yard.html" />
    <link rel="service.edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.themayfly.com/cgi-bin/mt-atom.cgi/weblog/blog_id=1/entry_id=792" title="wildlife we've seen in our yard" />
    <id>tag:www.themayfly.com,2011:/weblog//1.792</id>
    
    <published>2011-10-24T18:16:09Z</published>
    <updated>2011-10-24T18:46:46Z</updated>
    
    <summary> Hey. What&apos;s up? These are a couple of critters we&apos;ve seen in our yard lately. My kids always insist I take photos. : ) This has nothing to do with wildlife, but I recently read Blood, Bones, and Butter....</summary>
    <author>
        <name>Alicia</name>
        <uri>www.themayfly.com/weblog</uri>
    </author>
    
        <category term="books are good" />
    
        <category term="this and that" />
    
    <content type="html" xml:lang="en" xml:base="http://www.themayfly.com/weblog/">
        <![CDATA[<p><br />
Hey. What's up?</p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6277447460/" title="scared by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6114/6277447460_f0a7509143.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="scared"></a></p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6277447286/" title="lunchtime by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6097/6277447286_5c9cb50082.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="lunchtime"></a></p>

<p>These are a couple of critters we've seen in our yard lately. My kids always insist I take photos. : )</p>

<p>This has nothing to do with wildlife, but I recently read <a href="http://bloodbonesandbutter.net/">Blood, Bones, and Butter</a>. I loved it. LOVED it. I also just finished <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Host-Novel-Stephenie-Meyer/dp/B004VD3XE2/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1319481842&sr=8-1">The Host</a>. It was addictive, soap-opera-ish fluff, but it got me thinking, so that's good.</p>

<p>What shall I read next? Any suggestions?</p>

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<entry>
    <title>and now it is fall.</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.themayfly.com/weblog/2011/10/and_now_it_is_fall.html" />
    <link rel="service.edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.themayfly.com/cgi-bin/mt-atom.cgi/weblog/blog_id=1/entry_id=791" title="and now it is fall." />
    <id>tag:www.themayfly.com,2011:/weblog//1.791</id>
    
    <published>2011-10-03T14:33:50Z</published>
    <updated>2011-10-03T14:41:07Z</updated>
    
    <summary></summary>
    <author>
        <name>Alicia</name>
        <uri>www.themayfly.com/weblog</uri>
    </author>
    
        <category term="this and that" />
    
    <content type="html" xml:lang="en" xml:base="http://www.themayfly.com/weblog/">
        <![CDATA[<p><br />
<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6207843968/" title="it's starting by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6180/6207843968_b4150c85d0.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="it's starting"></a></p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6207330605/" title="treats by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6157/6207330605_2a57a9ed8c.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="treats"></a></p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6207843768/" title="balloon by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6131/6207843768_fe349011b4.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="balloon"></a></p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6207330455/" title="fromthecar by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6149/6207330455_b7cd8f4fa6.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="fromthecar"></a></p>

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<entry>
    <title>girls weekend away</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.themayfly.com/weblog/2011/09/girls_weekend_away.html" />
    <link rel="service.edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.themayfly.com/cgi-bin/mt-atom.cgi/weblog/blog_id=1/entry_id=790" title="girls weekend away" />
    <id>tag:www.themayfly.com,2011:/weblog//1.790</id>
    
    <published>2011-09-21T03:43:18Z</published>
    <updated>2011-09-21T04:24:37Z</updated>
    
    <summary> I had a girls&apos; weekend away with some of my besties at a sweet little lake house that belongs to my friend&apos;s mom. It&apos;s sandwiched between a perfectly tiny lake, Legge Lake- hence the legs, and a river. We...</summary>
    <author>
        <name>Alicia</name>
        <uri>www.themayfly.com/weblog</uri>
    </author>
    
        <category term="this and that" />
    
    <content type="html" xml:lang="en" xml:base="http://www.themayfly.com/weblog/">
        <![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6168429840/" title="legges by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6157/6168429840_4037f5c7ca.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="legges"></a></p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6168429924/" title="ll by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6164/6168429924_fec87c4571.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="ll"></a></p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6167893595/" title="theriver by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6165/6167893595_ec76c26d1d.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="theriver"></a></p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6167893547/" title="skull by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6156/6167893547_9fa16c3ce4.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="skull"></a></p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6167893237/" title="dinner by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6156/6167893237_51856eb527.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="dinner"></a></p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6168429768/" title="fire by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6162/6168429768_26b780ab25.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="fire"></a></p>

<p>I had a girls' weekend away with some of my besties at a sweet little lake house that belongs to my friend's mom. It's sandwiched between a perfectly tiny lake, Legge Lake- hence the legs, and a river. We took one short boat ride, and then the cool, damp weather kept us inside the rest of the time. We flopped around on big pillows by the roaring fire watching Sixteen Candles and eating too many snacks. Jake Ryan, you handsome devil, where have you gone? Apparently to Pennsylvania to <a href="http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0001706/bio">make furniture</a>. Sigh. Love that. </p>

<p>A few (too many?!) beers and glasses of wine (and something resembling an adult cherry limeade) were consumed which in turn produced much laughing, dancing, old story telling, and other such merriment.</p>

<p>It was really, really fun. It's good to have these sorts of friends. And then Sunday, feeling all thankful, I came home to read <a href="http://publicbookstore.blogspot.com/2011/09/hi-from-sunday-night.html">this</a>. So...</p>

<p><br />
Girls? Are you reading? <br />
I love you guys.</p>

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<entry>
    <title>yellow and green</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.themayfly.com/weblog/2011/09/yellow_and_green.html" />
    <link rel="service.edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.themayfly.com/cgi-bin/mt-atom.cgi/weblog/blog_id=1/entry_id=789" title="yellow and green" />
    <id>tag:www.themayfly.com,2011:/weblog//1.789</id>
    
    <published>2011-09-13T04:19:41Z</published>
    <updated>2011-09-13T04:34:41Z</updated>
    
    <summary>I took both of these photos just before dinner, and then noticed they were color coordinated. While I cut up the squash for breading and frying (our favorite way to eat squash) she sat on the couch and tried out...</summary>
    <author>
        <name>Alicia</name>
        <uri>www.themayfly.com/weblog</uri>
    </author>
    
        <category term="this and that" />
    
    <content type="html" xml:lang="en" xml:base="http://www.themayfly.com/weblog/">
        <![CDATA[<p>I took both of these photos just before dinner, and then noticed they were color coordinated.</p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6142439415/" title="squash by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6168/6142439415_216f8653a5.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="squash"></a></p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6142992722/" title="trying it out by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6075/6142992722_ae57f44823.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="trying it out"></a></p>

<p>While I cut up the squash for breading and frying (our favorite way to eat squash) she sat on the couch and tried out her brother's new trombone. She swore she played a little bit of the National Anthem. </p>

<p>Her brother told her not to puff out her cheeks. "That's bad form," he said.</p>

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<entry>
    <title>a whole lot about nothing much</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.themayfly.com/weblog/2011/09/a_whole_lot_about_nothing_much.html" />
    <link rel="service.edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.themayfly.com/cgi-bin/mt-atom.cgi/weblog/blog_id=1/entry_id=788" title="a whole lot about nothing much" />
    <id>tag:www.themayfly.com,2011:/weblog//1.788</id>
    
    <published>2011-09-07T02:42:53Z</published>
    <updated>2011-09-07T04:23:48Z</updated>
    
    <summary> But I&apos;ll tell you about it anyway, just so I have something to post about. Around here we set the table for the four of us the same way each time. Two big plates and two small plates. Two...</summary>
    <author>
        <name>Alicia</name>
        <uri>www.themayfly.com/weblog</uri>
    </author>
    
        <category term="this and that" />
    
    <content type="html" xml:lang="en" xml:base="http://www.themayfly.com/weblog/">
        <![CDATA[<p><br />
But I'll tell you about it anyway, just so I have something to post about. </p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6122919058/" title="jerry by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6082/6122919058_4b39045ef7.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="jerry"></a></p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6122919008/" title="in the rain by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6209/6122919008_fd0b711a23.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="in the rain"></a></p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6122919112/" title="sodapop by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6182/6122919112_f5a7ce22b9.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="sodapop"></a></p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6122376207/" title="darker by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6203/6122376207_7fd9086267.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="darker"></a></p>

<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6122704998/" title="four by the mayfly, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6066/6122704998_27bfe94c65.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="four"></a></p>

<p>Around here we set the table for the four of us the same way each time. Two big plates and two small plates. Two big forks, two small. And even though the kids often eat just as large a portion as we adults do, they still prefer it that way.</p>

<p><br />
I've been so busy. I had a mural job for a client whose playroom I painted several years ago. I did three kids' rooms in her new house and had a great time working during the day like a normal person! I am very excited about drumming up some more mural business now.</p>

<p><br />
Family photo shoot season has indeed begun, which means I am spending a lot more time sitting at the computer editing photos. I have discovered <a href="http://www.spotify.com">Spotify</a> and it's genious.</p>

<p><br />
The weather has cooled off. Today I wore jeans. I was happy and sad about it. This morning was also the first time I've wanted a hot beverage in quite awhile. Actually, I might go make a cup of rooibos right now.</p>

<p><br />
Sometimes I really miss coffee.</p>

<p><br />
We went our friends' wedding in Lawrence Saturday night, and I learned a few things: <br />
I am happy that there are people like these friends in this world. Look at this <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/themayfly/6122670582/in/photostream/">cake</a>.<br />
N is a dancing fool. And loves cake. <br />
J is self-conscious when he dances.<br />
But he looks handsome in a tie.<br />
Cucumber gin rickeys sound odd, but taste amazing.</p>

<p><br />
J is singing in his school choir. He has also decided to try out playing the trombone in the band. The choice has me giggling a little- it's a big instrument for a such a small guy. But really, I'm excited for him. I hope he likes it. </p>

<p><br />
I can't stop singing "seventy-six trombones in the big parade..." in my head.</p>

<p><br />
I got an email about student council at the kids' school. I asked N if she'd like to do it. She said, "Sure!" (silence) "What's student council?" </p>

<p><br />
She's had a serious fear of bitewing x-rays at the dentist. But today she overcame it and did it. So to celebrate, we went to the Target dollar section and bought cheap, packaged cotton candy. Good mom, huh?</p>

<p><br />
Our dog Jerry is a serious runner-awayer. I mean the second he's off the leash or loose he takes off. And FAST! But we took him hiking this weekend bravely let him off leash. He stayed right by our sides. It was so nice.</p>

<p><br />
Well, I'll stop. I could go on forever with worthless little tidbits.</p>

<p>Take good care,<br />
A</p>

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